The road to a man's heart is most usually his throat
It has been revealed through science
and researches that 99% of healthy men love food and appreciate
good meal. In African culture, a wife would prepare good meal for her children and husband as one of her duties in marriage. Good meal also is a great tool in the hand of a woman to get whatever she desires from her husband. A married African man is expected to come straight home, after the day's work and be served the good meal by her wife. But if such a wife cannot cook well, not knowing how to apply the ingredient correctly, such marriage may suffer.
good meal. In African culture, a wife would prepare good meal for her children and husband as one of her duties in marriage. Good meal also is a great tool in the hand of a woman to get whatever she desires from her husband. A married African man is expected to come straight home, after the day's work and be served the good meal by her wife. But if such a wife cannot cook well, not knowing how to apply the ingredient correctly, such marriage may suffer.
You cannot afford to lose him to a booker or restaurant
It has recently been found out
that even some married men now have their lunch packs from home because they
cannot afford to eat outside. Such men might be doing it before they got married
but because in African culture, it is expected of a responsible married man to
eat at home from his wife's pot. Therefore, it will take a woman that does not
know how to cook good meal to send her man back to booker. If that,
peradventure, be the case, it may cost you your marriage. To avoid this, you
should learn how to do it better.
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What you give as impression to his friends and relatives matters
Remember that he is an African
who has African family and friends. Don't be completely relaxed about him telling
you never to worry, even if you don't know how to cook. Have you noticed that a
man can too love drunk to consider some moral decadence of his wife-to-be in
courtship? Maybe because he was not considering friends and family in the
nearest future, but the day he will invite his friends for diner or relatives
for holidays, you may not end happy with their impression towards you. You may
be tagged foul names, mocked or even be rejected. You would not want to
experience this, therefore, learn, now that you can
· What you give as impression to your own friends and relatives also matters
Even you own people, as African
will complain at you cooking and may avoid coming to spend time at your place,
not to talk of allowing their children. No one prays to be all alone. Neighbors
and friends will gossip and make mockery of you.
· It will tell on your children
Under normal
circumstances, a good cook should be able to make a good cook. In Africa, the
place of home training is yet to be complete without knowing how to cook. Even
if you get a cook as maid to help at home, will your children be submissive to
a maid? That is why you should know how to cook to be able to train your
children well.
· Your marriage arsenals are your bedroom and your kitchen
The bedroom and kitchen are the
two strong holds that protect marriage from falling when they are been manage well
by a wise woman. Bedroom is for mutual intercourse, while the kitchen is the
factory that produces the nutrients that keep the body and soul together. A
wife that does not know how to cook has rendered one of her marriage strong
rooms vulnerable for attack. A strange woman who knows how to cook better may
infiltrate your arsenal and lunch an attack that may destroy your home. Be
wise.
· Your husband is liable to cheat on you, even with your closest friend; you will be greatly disappointed.
A woman that cannot prepare good
meal has already opened the road to her husband's heart to another woman or
women out there. Have you not noticed that a part of a woman goes into what she
cooks and breeds connection between her and whoever she cooks for? No wonder
there is bound to be difference in taste when two or more women are given the
same type of meal to cook with same ingredient. Majority of those who allow
their maids to cook for their husbands always end up losing them to the maids. You
wouldn't want to be the next victim.
· You are expected to be better than his mother
You know you are taken over his
consumption from his mother, therefore, more is expected from you. You cannot
afford to just place any kind of meal before a man who has been nurtured well
with good meal from his childhood. Such would appreciate better cook than his
mother, nothing less.